What to do When Planning to Move to Senior Living
- DMS
- 6 days ago
- 4 min read

A Step-by-Step Guide for Seniors and Families
Moving to senior living is a major life transition — emotionally, logistically, and practically. Whether the move is to independent living, assisted living, memory care, or a continuing care community, preparation is key to making the process smooth, dignified, and low-stress.
From deciding what to bring, to downsizing a lifetime of belongings, to coordinating family members and professionals, planning ahead can dramatically reduce overwhelm.
This guide walks through what to do when planning a move to senior living, plus tools and strategies to make the process more organized and manageable.
1. Start Planning Early (Earlier Than You Think)
The earlier you begin planning, the more control and choice you’ll have.
Start by:
Discussing goals, concerns, and preferences with your loved one
Touring senior living communities
Reviewing floor plans, storage space, and what furnishings are allowed
Understanding move-in timelines and requirements
Early planning helps ensure the move feels intentional rather than rushed or reactive.
2. Understand How Much Space You’ll Actually Have
Most senior living apartments are smaller than a family home, which means not everything can come along.
Ask the community:
Square footage and layout details
Storage availability
Furniture size recommendations
What items are already provided (beds, appliances, dining furniture, etc.)
This step sets realistic expectations and guides downsizing decisions.
3. Create an Inventory of Belongings Before Downsizing
Before deciding what to keep, sell, donate, or pass down, it’s incredibly helpful to create a visual inventory of personal belongings.
An inventory allows families to:
See everything in one organized place
Make thoughtful decisions without rushing
Track heirlooms, valuables, and sentimental items
Share lists and photos with family members remotely
SaveOr helps families quickly document hundreds of household items using photos and AI — creating a searchable, shareable digital inventory that simplifies downsizing decisions.
4. Sort Items Into Clear Categories
A helpful method is to sort belongings into these groups:
✅ Bring to Senior Living
Essential furniture, clothing, decor, and meaningful items
❤️ Keep in the Family
Heirlooms, sentimental pieces, and family history items
💰 Sell
Valuable furniture, collectibles, antiques, or resale items
🎁 Donate
Items in good condition that others can use
📦 Store
Seasonal items or belongings not needed immediately
🗑 Let Go
Items that no longer serve a purpose
Clear categories reduce emotional fatigue and speed up decisions.
5. Address the Emotional Side of Downsizing
Downsizing isn’t just logistical — it’s deeply emotional. Many belongings hold memories, identity, and meaning.
Helpful strategies include:
Taking photos of meaningful items before letting go
Involving family in choosing what stays in the family
Giving belongings to people who will appreciate them
Making decisions over time instead of all at once
A thoughtful process helps seniors feel respected, heard, and in control.
6. Coordinate Family Roles and Responsibilities
Senior living moves often involve adult children, siblings, or extended family.
Assign roles such as:
Decision-maker
Organizer and scheduler
Donation and resale coordinator
Move-day logistics manager
A shared digital inventory (like SaveOr) lets families collaborate remotely, reducing conflict and miscommunication.
7. Work With Senior Move Managers or Organizers (If Possible)
Professional Senior Move Managers (NASMM) can help with:
Sorting and downsizing
Floor-plan planning
Packing and unpacking
Coordinating movers and donations
Emotional support through the transition
These professionals often rely on organized inventories to streamline decision-making.
8. Prepare Important Documents and Records
Gather and organize:
Legal documents (will, power of attorney, trust)
Medical records
Insurance policies
Financial account information
Property and asset records
Having paperwork organized reduces stress later.
9. Plan What Happens to the Home and Remaining Belongings
If moving from a longtime home, consider:
Selling the home
Renting it
Leaving items for family
Hosting an estate sale
Storing remaining belongings
Donating or gifting items
A home inventory can help track what remains and ensure nothing valuable is lost or forgotten.
10. Prepare for Move Day Logistics
Plan ahead for:
Movers
Packing schedules
Labeling boxes
Transporting valuables separately
Setting up the new apartment to feel familiar and comforting
Bringing personal decor, photos, and meaningful items helps the new space feel like home.
11. How SaveOr Helps Families Prepare for Senior Living Moves
SaveOr simplifies one of the hardest parts of moving to senior living: managing personal belongings.
With SaveOr, families can:
Quickly inventory an entire home using photos and AI
Track items and decide what to keep, sell, donate, or pass down
Share access with family members and move managers
Keep records for estate planning, storage, or insurance
Reduce emotional overwhelm by creating clarity
Instead of sorting through chaos, families get structure, transparency, and peace of mind.
12. A Thoughtful Move Leads to a Better New Beginning
Moving to senior living can be a positive, empowering transition — offering safety, community, support, and a simpler lifestyle.
With the right planning, seniors can:
Keep what matters most
Let go of excess with dignity
Avoid rushed decisions
Start the next chapter with confidence
The key is planning early, staying organized, and using tools that reduce stress — not add to it.


